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how to not get annoyed at grandma (for different opinions)
Posted: Thu Sep 03, 2009 7:42 am
by Krissy_beltonMOmom
Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 11:15 pm
by everydaylou
Well, in this case, I think I would simply not tell her!
It really isn't any of her business, so I'd do my own thing for a few months, wait until she compliments DD, and THEN say, "yes, we've really noticed her thriving in this area since we brought her back home!"
Posted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 11:00 am
by seekingmyLord
It never works to attack someone else for their own shortcomings. It is a defensive tactic and let's her know that she can get to you. I think we all tend to lash back when we do not have a prepared statement, so have one prepared:
"I am thankful that you love your grandchild so much to be so concerned, but that as her parents both my husband and I are in agreement that we will homeschool her at this time. I welcome your questions and your support."
If she is obviously against it and keeps bringing it up, change the subject until she gets the message that the subject is off limits, or take a more direct approach and say that you will not discuss the subject of homeschooling with her...and then don't discuss it!
Posted: Tue Mar 09, 2010 3:10 pm
by comusher
As long as you and your husband are on the same page on the subject there is nothing to worry about. I know it can be annoying and hard to take when someone (especially grandma) tells you what you are doing wrong, but let her know it is your decision to make. Let her know to support you or take her negative attitude away from the family.