I am a Christian young lady, about to turn 18 (a little message to 13 year old Kim - Private Message me! I know just what you are going through.)
Some recommended resources for Christian Homeschool Families,
* A message titled "Victory for daughters" from Vision Forum Ministries,
* "Raising Maidens of Virtue" a Book written by a Mother and her daughters
* "His perfect faithfulness" a book by Eric and Leslie Ludy. I recommend all of their books, though some of the more recent ones are slightly more thematic and are written directly for kids who are in public schools. Leslie went to public school until she was 16, when she gave her heart to the Lord, she asked her parents to Homeschool her. Eric met her right around that time and they were both seeking the Lord about waiting for his timeing etc. It's a wonderful Story! Also, this couple has a great story
http://www.ryanandjules.com/
* "How to evaluate a suiter" Dougles Philips, Vision Forum Ministries.
EDIT
I forgot to add my piece.
When the right man get's old enough and established, God will send him to my doorstep. He'll talk to Dad, we'll get to know each other on a friend basis in home settings (not alone) and when every thing is clear between Dad, Mom, his Parents and Me, Dad'll give the OK for him to ask me to marry him. That's basically the idea, and we do talk about it alot but Dad tries to bring out that Marriage is not the ultamate goal. Being a servant of Christ is. Theres no reason for 15 year old girls to be looking for husbands, but there is reason for 15 year old girls to be learning how to serve the Lord and be a home maker (relationship with Dad is real important, and if not him, a grandfather etc).