Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 7:51 am
Honestly, have you memorized your math facts? I never did and still aced all my math classes all through school and college. My daugter just isn't ready to memorize all those "boring facts". Last year, at age 5, she was able to add and subtract 3 digit numbers with borrowing/carrying. She also dreads writing, she sometimes writes backwards and takes FOREVER to finish just a few simple problems. So, I let her dictate (no clues from me!) and she can do 3rd grade math or better as a 6 year old without doing the writing and without memorizing the facts.
I'd say move on! Just stay on their level, no holding back, and eventually, those skills will develop. If it were something absoulutely necessary, by all means, stay back. But, for something that can just be memorized later(not learned, he already learned to add and subtract, just can't memorize them), just do it later ) Your child will not suffer by even never memorizing the facts. Just like my daughter won't suffer by not yet writing all her own math homework...she is 2-3 grades ahead by doing things the way we do.
I'd say move on! Just stay on their level, no holding back, and eventually, those skills will develop. If it were something absoulutely necessary, by all means, stay back. But, for something that can just be memorized later(not learned, he already learned to add and subtract, just can't memorize them), just do it later ) Your child will not suffer by even never memorizing the facts. Just like my daughter won't suffer by not yet writing all her own math homework...she is 2-3 grades ahead by doing things the way we do.