When to pull from public school
Posted: Tue Mar 17, 2009 10:51 am
I'm new to the forum, and was hoping on some input on our situation. We homeschooled by eldest son through kindergarten, then we moved to WA state and he went to public kindergarten here (different age cut off from our former district). He thrived in both kindergarten and 1rst grade, in fact, I still adore his 1rst grade teacher. He had a rough start in kindergarten, a lot of issues with him being ahead of his class in reading and getting bored, which would cause him to wander off to do his own thing. His first grade teacher catered to the fact he was ahead with more advanced versions of the work the rest of the class was working on. Then second grade came around. This year has just been awful. His teacher has pegged him as a 'problem child'. He talks too much, he won't sit still, he works ahead instead of paying attention. There was a bully situation, where a group of four girls were coming up to him and screaming in his ears, telling the rest of the class he smelled and holding their noses whenever they see him, and constantly saying he was chasing them at recess and pinching their rears. I work at the school part time during recess, and he never played near them on the days they complained. Finally the situation was handled only after I made a call to the superintendent after both the teacher and principal told me I was making a big deal out of nothing.
I have 'spied' on the class. Standing outside the door and peeking through the window off and on through the day. All they really do seem to do is worksheets at their desks. The only time I see them moving around is to turn in papers. And don't get me started on what they are reading! Pre-k level books (it says so right on the covers!). He reads them in a day then gets in trouble for working ahead and has to continue reading the same book for the rest of the week. Every day he comes home in tears swearing that he hates school and will forever. He also says he is cursed at school to never make anyone happy. While he is doing his homework, he is just scribbling on the work in class instead of doing it correctly.
The term ends in two weeks and then there is only one more term until summer break. We have done our research and we are prepared to return to homeschooling. We even have a wonderful homeschool campus nearby where he can take a few classes if he wishes, though he will not be able to take advantage of it until the fall.
Do we pull him out now, or have him finish the year? In our state we have a yearly assessment requirement as well, and it would be much easier (for my husband and I at least) to start fresh in the fall instead of trying to pull everything together in a couple of months. I also think it may be easier for him to adjust after having the summer off with everyone else, rather than coming home when all his friends are still in school. He is a very social child and gets lonely very easily. I just don't think 2 weeks is enough time to get all our ducks in a row, make sure we are completely legal, and make a comfortable situation for him at home. My husband and I need to adjust to the idea as well. We will literally be together all the time, as DH works from home as do I (he is a graphic designer, I am a freelance writer). While we love it when our family is together, it will take adjustment to be around each other constantly. It is also still winter here, so cabin fever is very likely.
What would you do? Wait, do it now, or take him out midterm in April or early May? Thank you for any advice.
I have 'spied' on the class. Standing outside the door and peeking through the window off and on through the day. All they really do seem to do is worksheets at their desks. The only time I see them moving around is to turn in papers. And don't get me started on what they are reading! Pre-k level books (it says so right on the covers!). He reads them in a day then gets in trouble for working ahead and has to continue reading the same book for the rest of the week. Every day he comes home in tears swearing that he hates school and will forever. He also says he is cursed at school to never make anyone happy. While he is doing his homework, he is just scribbling on the work in class instead of doing it correctly.
The term ends in two weeks and then there is only one more term until summer break. We have done our research and we are prepared to return to homeschooling. We even have a wonderful homeschool campus nearby where he can take a few classes if he wishes, though he will not be able to take advantage of it until the fall.
Do we pull him out now, or have him finish the year? In our state we have a yearly assessment requirement as well, and it would be much easier (for my husband and I at least) to start fresh in the fall instead of trying to pull everything together in a couple of months. I also think it may be easier for him to adjust after having the summer off with everyone else, rather than coming home when all his friends are still in school. He is a very social child and gets lonely very easily. I just don't think 2 weeks is enough time to get all our ducks in a row, make sure we are completely legal, and make a comfortable situation for him at home. My husband and I need to adjust to the idea as well. We will literally be together all the time, as DH works from home as do I (he is a graphic designer, I am a freelance writer). While we love it when our family is together, it will take adjustment to be around each other constantly. It is also still winter here, so cabin fever is very likely.
What would you do? Wait, do it now, or take him out midterm in April or early May? Thank you for any advice.